Also, regarding scripture - it doesn't matter how you understand it or interpret it, there is always somebody who interprets it differently.
Basically, telling someone they are interpreting it wrong is not really a good argument.
Your interpretation of love is an "unconditional connection". Now that is curious because Christianity itself introduces us to the concept of eternal damnation and torture if we do not accept Jesus Christ. Now I don't know your interpretation of unconditional - but to me that ain't it.
Also suggesting that love connects everything, I am unaware of this branch of science.