OK, sounds like you chose ADW Launcher as your launcher. The "crosses" are where you can add icons by dragging them onto those plus signs. Long press on the desktop, then you can choose Launcher Actions.Next click on Open/close App Drawer. You will now have the missing icon on your desktop. Drag that icon onto one of the plus signs or over either of the other icons to replace them.
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