On mine, it shows contact info exactly the same as the Evo, and not like either of your examples at all.
If I tap in Joe, I'll get the Joe and the Joe-like names, and each has an indicator (H, M or W (home, mobile, work), but only one entry for each. The people card to the right allows me to access the contact card to get any of Joe's number - but the one that appears is the one I've set as his primary.
Are you setting a primary number for Joe on your 3d?
On your Evo - did you have 3 cards for Joe instead of one?