I hear you. I am in a spin because I was trouble shooting flashing nandroids, kernels, and radios, while Verizon is still dialing in the 4G in this area.
And my guess is they still will be, off & on, all over the country for a time to come so I will be a little slower to jump in from now on.
I am back on the 4.0.4 radios also. The hand off seems better but I have some salt on it. :-)
Galaxy Nexus Toro / AOKP JB MR1/ Lean & Franco Kernels