I don't understand either "side" getting up in arms against the other. It's a personal decision, no real right or wrong here. Neither decision harms anyone, certainly not the one to wait. The only way not waiting puts anyone out is if you need help making sure you're doing it right. No big deal and many are happy to help. Remember, it's uncharted territory for most people so please don't pressure anyone who doesn't feel comfortable with it. They'll have their day soon enough.
