Found A Fix I Can Live With
I had forced closed all my music apps before pairing. But it launches the Android default player anyway. I tried other music apps but the problem still exists, but I did find reasonable fix.
I downloaded an app called Media Button Router. After pairing, a menu pops up showing all my music apps, and thus allows me to choose one. I go ahead and ignore that and after a few seconds the app closes and no music begins to play like before. I can live with that but itís frustrating as to why pairing would automatically start playing any music files on the Android. Maybe Android 4.0.3 Ice Cream Sandwich will solve that issue.