So I tweaked this a little bit hopefully it helps out someone.
dir /s /OD /B *.mp3 >playlist.m3u
same command I just added two items
--will list recursive, so the you can run this from the parent music folder. The command will go and get a file name and location for every song under that folder and any other folders within.
--this filters the list to only mp3 since all of my music is mp3 it works out for me, but if you have aac or wma you can change that accordingly and it will list those files.
just does a dump to a file.
I use Notepad ++, it's a great application just as simple as notepad, but you can do a lot more with it.
Thanks for the starter command.