Just been to the Desire HD support/downloads page on HTC site and the stuff all about ICS has gone since the other night (only HTC SYnc sh1t left) so looks to me like thats it then. Goodbye HTC, hello Samsung for me. But will wait for the new Note which I am presumimg will have the new stuff from the S3 in it.
Like someone said earlier how to not to make friends and alienate people!!!