Its really stupid. My ringtone was so low compared to the notifications that I could barely hear it at that level, but I didnt want to turn it up because the notifications were so loud already (and way more frequent). So I went through the trouble of editing the ringtone file with some software myself to make it louder so it matched the amplitude of the notification file.
Its really dumb that I had to do all of that, but I thought it was easier than using one of the many apps that are out there to help this problem. They all seemed to require customizing profiles and toggling between them and overriding the system profiles and I really didnt want to go through all of that just to match notification and ringtone volumes.