I think you may have got them across but not showing them....
If you go to your phone book and in the top left it shows phonebook with a little arrow next to it, if you drop that down it shoudl let you choose what shows in your list...
To stop contacts without a number being shown go to your phone book then choose settings and at the top it should have an option called Only with phone number if you tick that it should make things a little clearer..
Hope thats helped
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