Originally Posted by kymberlin
Why bother, you should let it end if that is what it is... exerting energy on finding out what is in people's minds is non productive. You never will and it will serve only to frustrate you. Just move on and it will all work out in the end.
as usual, you're right
actually, i talked it out with my best friend (aka sounding board). i'm all talked out and i feel better.