To the OP - I hope you have managed to get the advice you need and good luck with your situation. I am a parent and genuinly wish you luck.
I feel compelled to respond to this thread. I am disgusted by some of the comments made. The OP was asking for advice on Apps. That is what this forum is for.
I asked a question about kid friendly Android pads, either here or on a nexus forum, as my toddler likes playing with mine and I don't want him to break it and was also offered a load of unwanted "parenting" advice, which I found pretty offensive, but this takes the biscuit.
I am new to Android and I am not sure whether the Android community responds like this becuase of it's diversity or what, but I have never, ever seen responses like this on a tech based forum and I have spend the last 15 years on them. I would go so far as banning people if I was a mod here.
If someone asks for App advice - provide it or read another thread. If I was on a cooking forum and I asked what a good set of knives are I would not expect a load of abuse based on the assumption that I could possibly want to carry one around as a weapon.
Stick to the subject.
Good mind to avoid foums like this in future as they seem to be inhabited by too many people that I don't like spouting their drivel from the safety of their anonimity.
Apologies to all the decent people here that provide help, I think you know the posters I am talking about though.