new phone fixed the problem.
My brother just upgraded to the new RAZR HD and his wife upgraded about 3 weeks ago. Her RAZR is having the same issues as some listed above. She never tried the HDMI when on ICS but she is running JB now and she told me she was having the same problems. My brother on the other hand got his phone on Tuesday and had to update his phone to JB when he received it and his phone is running fine. I looked at the build date on hers and the kernel version and date were different than mine and his . I think they may have released to different patches of updates when they were releasing them. Motorola has advised me to contact android development dept. I will contact them and update my findings.