So I bit the bullet and went down to his office today to talk to him. He wouldn't listen. As soon as he started talking I knew he wasn't in any frame of mind to speak to speak to me. He then tried to justify what he's doing and what he's done and how he's right. I didn't argue with him. I just tried to talk about what he's doing to my mom. He didn't seem to care. I don't think he even sees the consequences of what he's doing. He is attributing all his problems to the economy and none to his behavior (the are all because of his behavior) and just refuses to own the fact that he is bringing all of this on himself. I think at this point he no longer thinks he is wrong and has now talked himself into thinking he is right.
I am no longer sure I can help him and maybe I never could. I left the meeting feeling shaken and helpless. Do I have any other options other than watching him just spiral down until he hits bottom and takes my mom with him?