I think i'm just going to spend a day flashing around to find the ROM I like the most. CleanROM has been good for me, going to try TrickDroid and ARHD out tonight possibly with some different kernel combinations. Coming from the 3vo it was nice that development was neatly organized in one thread, but I believe i've found a forum on XDA that contains current development (albeit for the international versions).
Soooo, another quick question, since the international versions are GSM I can assume (unless otherwise stated) that most ROMS and kernels on this forum will work on my AT&T version?
Sorry for the noob questions, figured better to ask here than have someone lose sleep because of a question I asked on XDA