Neverstill isn't actually the problem. That is owned by us and is our "ad server" but isn't the source of the slow loads.
Phandroid has been getting hit by malicious users trying to bring down our servers. AndroidForums shares some of the code with Phandroid, so when Phandroid gets brought down, AF struggles to load at an acceptable speed.
We continue to look into these server issues and while things HAVE improve drastically, we continue to feverishly pursue continued improvement. We appreciate your feedback and keep it coming. The more specific the better.