jnitz23 you must have a TON of stuff running.
Coming from a Samsung Moment, I found the only way to get decent battery life was to install ATK (autotaskkiller) and AMM (automemorymanager)
You will find all kinds of naysayers, but I am speaking from actual real life experience, not "lets pretend we are experts in mom/dad's basement"
Try it and see if it helps. I am (im)patiently waiting for my Evo to appear today...