Well I went to the VZW store today, and due to my New Every Two kicking in today, and being able to get the $100 rebate instantly (not sure why), AND best of all - being able to keep my sweet Alltel plan, I bought an Incredible. $150 plus tax. Not too bad. I bought the Eris from someone on Craigslist a few weeks back to hold me over so I'll be selling it soon. in the mean time I will probably continue to play with Roms and what not on it.
Yes it the speed is much better. But, I think the Eris' screen quality is actually better than the Incredible. Although smaller, it seems like the color accuracy is much better on the Eris. The Inc. screen is not horrible, but the sooner I get the Eris out of my sight the better so I can adjust to the Inc.
Don't tell my wife about any of this though...