I'm heaps insulted by this
Why should a woman be automatically pidgeonholed into the iPhone crowd? Are you saying we are simple-minded? Grow up please you sound like you are 12 and never met a smart woman before. Funny fact is most of my friends use BlackBerry.
Back on topic, the Android marketing has so far been pretty fail - to men and women alike. I live in Aussie so it might be different than in the US/UK but there is absolutely NO POSTERS for Android anywhere. The only place I've seen one is on Telstra windows because they have Desire on exclusive, however other places that offer Android phones like the Dext/Cliq, Dream etc hardly advertise it.
On the internet it's even worse. You'd think they'd at least have cheaply made banners right? WRONG! Even in technoblogs they only have iPhone ads.
I'd attribute this to the fact that it's up to the makers to advertise their phone. Because there are several they have to compete with Apple AND each other. This makes it less attractive for them to embark on mass campaigning. Google should really push forward and advertise the OS itself and not worry about the myriad of handsets. That would solve the fragmentation at least.
Anyway that's my $.02