Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by treb1797, Jul 2, 2012.
Maybe Daddy Lin is putting on his mankini & wants to surprise her.
I'm saying nuffin here....
Just as long as hes got his own and isnt borrowing yours :thumbup:
If this wasn't wrong on so many levels before, it sure is now...
Good call....oh & try to do more of this, you know say nothing :rock:
Or maybe he's putting on his :birthday: suit.
Where's the thump button in this thread?
You this saying be under this ad :
And Thank God For That
I was just in Kentucky this week
OUCH !!! you found it, but don't thump me bump
I just had to say that when I saw that add at the top of my screen. Just stay out of the Newport area as there is a crazy British lady that lives there.
That'll not be me then. I live in Ohio. I know we are neighbors and all...
Ohio...Kentucky, tomato...toe mot toe :tomato:
Wow... Ohio beat Penn St
Penn St. is a trainwreck, but should have beaten Ohio.
Can't wait for Alabama vs. Michigan
Here we go...
:cheers: after being down by 22 pts my Orange have scored 4 unanswered TD's arty:
Sorry Rachel but look at the bright side.... you only have 5 more months until football ends
Yeah Northwestern is a real power house
When your as bad as we have been.... you celebrate when you can
This should keep her busy for a while :
W/ ya there. As a University of Memphis grad I don't show up until basketball season. layingball:
The "Lady-friend saga"
I honestly feel like crying right now. Seriously. I was on the verge of it a bit earlier today in front of a bunch of people. I have somehow managed to stifle things back, buts its work to do so. I wonder if I may be some kind of feeler or something. I don't know. My head is mush right now.
Every once in a while someone comes into my life that I would label as "rare" Often times these rare people don't stay in my life too long. And yet another case is unfolding right now. Its a girl. Not even someone I can have, I suppose, but still. There is something about her. Perhaps its because when interacting with her, I see parts of myself. I lose track of time often while talking one on one with her. There has been times I have cracked my elbow on something, and shortly there after, she would smash her finger. She once told me that every time I hurt myself, she does the same. I said that was spooky. I guess ghosts don't have nothing to do with it, just awkwardness. Or something. I don't know.
But today she dropped the bombshell and confirmed what has been nagging me in the back of my mind for a while. She is leaving. I had always used the analogy of a binary neutron star system, whereas either the two stars crash into each other, or one gets ejected from the system. Guess I was right about this. She is ejecting from the system.
As soon as this confirmation came from her mouth, I went silent. I went on about my business. Wrecked. Sad. About what looks like loosing yet another person whom I could actually call a friend. It does look like this move is going to better for her. She will be working up the street from me, which is cool, but I don't want to encroach on her, looking like some desperate loaner trying to "make" a friend. I am not even sure she sees me this way, hell, she is in a relationship with someone else. I am perfectly able to accept this fact. I understand she will not see me in any other light other then a friend. That's okay.
But this is all new territory for me. I am Mr socially awkward. I do know she is a grown woman who can make the choice of who to be friends with.
Gee, I manage to get to the point of actually being able to talk to someone and they bolt. This seems to be a common theme for me. Someone enters my life and I actually like them, and they bolt, never mind the fact that they don't reciprocate. No wonder I am hesitant to make friends, let alone lady friends.
While walking around, I ran into a manager, she asked how I was. And I spilled the beans. Nearly tearing up in the process. I said I did not know what to do, that I did not even know if she liked me back as a friend. I said I pretty much kept this to myself because I did not know how to handle this situation. I did not want to make it sound like I was trying to angle my way into her pants or what not. That I did not want to cause a problem. Either at work, or away from work.
Perhaps I should just ask my lady friend in question? Perhaps I should just tell her I am basically socially crippled and I have no idea what I am doing, that I am not good at these types of interactions. Perhaps I should ask her to do me a favor and tell me to leave her alone, that she don't want the attention or be friends or what not. But that would probably cause an issue.
I don't know.
On my way out, I stopped to talk to my lady friend and talked to her a bit about it. I made the comment, which, I guess it the best I could do, "I hope we can stay in contact." She said sure. Or yes. Or something to that tune. I guess there is not much more I can do. Wish her luck and hope she calls, or texts, or return mine.
Sorry for the whinny post I just needed to vent.
EDIT. It would have made more sense to me to fall into those cocoburs today then the other day.
Good Rach, now let me find you something else. Back in a minute.