before i start let me say i know who is responsible, but do not want to make a mountain out of a mold hill.
while sitting on my couch i noticed the screen of my droid 2x lightup as if i was getting a incoming call, but the phone never rings. as i am watching the screen a cursor arrow appears, goes to the top middle of the screen and appeared to be clicking on something. everytime it clicked, a small box would appear with the word "volume". it appeared the cursor arrow was trying to increase the volume. never touched the phone, just watched the cursor do this a couple times. the cursor acted identically as it would on a computer that had remote access installed. at this time my phone security was a firewall and a seperate sms/mms call blocker app, which obveously did nothing to alert me to a incoming no-ring call. (after this happened i noticed i had received 3 missed call notifications all received a minute apart, all from a unknown #) -my phone never rang for any of them .
a couple days later i noticed a unknown icon on the top right of my screen, my closes guess was that it resembled in some respects the "speaker phone on" icon. when i pressed the speaker phone icon i could hear a noise from the speaker and when i put the phone to my ear, i could hear somebody's televison running in the backround. have upgraded to virus protection etc, but am wondering if there are any files left in my phone that would show this patch setup?
ps. the person responsible is a nurd that works within the phone industry and there is no relation ship what so ever.