Ok, so I grabbed handcent the other day and love it. I've been using it in place of the stock messaging app. I was playing around with the settings, getting things customized the way I wanted to, and messaging one person during this. Well now, anytime she messages me I have a red icon in the status bar in the top left, but everyone else is purple. I only see notification settings when I'm on the list and not in a particular conversation - when I'm in a particular convo and hit the menu button I don't see any settings specific for a single conversation. Am I just completely missing something in the settings somewhere that sets the notification for a single person vs. all people? I would like them to be consistent. And on the note of messaging apps, is there a way for me to place the handcent icon where the messaging app icon is now on the fascinate?