Please help me before I go mad and throw this thing out my car window!
I figured it out - sanity saved!
For anyone else, you have to be in the stock Car Mode, then in settings, check 'disable STS message reading' (or something like that).
Your sanity will thank you.
How do you get into car mode?
When you are in the car dock, there will be a little steering wheel in your notification bar, pull it down then click it. Then go into the settings.
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