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  1. Stinky Stinky

    Stinky Stinky Well-Known Member


    I was just trying to take his mind off things and try maybe cheer him up in a clever and nice cheerful creative way.

    I understand it is bad... I already know that well.

    But if it going to cause World War 3 then it is best I just forget about it.

    My apologies if I made any one sad or unhappy - that is never my intent ever for anything or any one.

    I am sorry....

    Take care.

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  2. NightAngel79

    NightAngel79 Bounty Hunter Administrator Moderator

    No worries Stinky....

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  3. badblue1

    badblue1 * TRUCKS ARE BEAUTIFUL * VIP Member

    My wife and i will keep you in our prayers.
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  4. NightAngel79

    NightAngel79 Bounty Hunter Administrator Moderator

    Thank you. My family appreciates everything we can get.

    We have a date for him to come home now.

    Dec 30th Gary comes home. Remodel is almost done, it will be close but we are hopeful the house will be ready in time.

    Planning on posting all the remodel pics on GiveForward site.

    Gary did go on an outing Friday with hospital to Lexington mall.
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  5. dan330

    dan330 Well-Known Member


    best wishes and hopes
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  6. huh

    huh Well-Known Member

    just read your update!!:):) That is fantastic news!!! Coming home... Going out and especially some movement in his right arm!!! I know it may not seem like much..but it's huge!!!! he must be one tough determined young man...I'm sure you are both very proud!
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  7. NightAngel79

    NightAngel79 Bounty Hunter Administrator Moderator

    We are!

    Thank you so much btw.
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  8. huh

    huh Well-Known Member

    my pleasure..:)
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  9. Stinky Stinky

    Stinky Stinky Well-Known Member

    WOW that IS very good news he can move his right!!!!

    That is VERY good news actuallY!!!!


    THAT really made me smile!!!!


    I am really sorry Nick... what a strong son... very impressive. :)

    I don't mean to sound like a moron but how did you know he had movement in his right arm?

    I am struggling to find it in this thread and the update. :(

    But forget about that this news is AWESOME!!!!


    That really made my day that!

    My prayers and positive spirit towards your son. :)

    This is very good news!

    Don't push it though guys!!!

    I don't know if it was right of me to say that? :(

    I am worried I will upset some one again when I didn't mean to.

    please let me know if there is a problem wit anything thank you.

    This is great news this totally made my day.

    I don't know if this is a private or inappropriate question but will he ever be able to walk ever again?


    I am sorry if this is inappropriate please do not hesitate to delete - don't want to hurt feelings.

    I feel a bit scared I will post something stupid when I don't mean to so I sincerly apologize.

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  10. NightAngel79

    NightAngel79 Bounty Hunter Administrator Moderator

    It's all good Stinky! No harm in asking.

    The updates are posted on

    Chances are he will never walk again. Of course they also said he would never talk again, or eat through his mouth. But walking will be a TALL order.

    For now we will be forever thankful if he can regain use of his hands and arms.
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  11. NightAngel79

    NightAngel79 Bounty Hunter Administrator Moderator

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  12. Unforgiven

    Unforgiven -.. --- - / -.. .- ... .... Moderator

    Wow, what I transformation. Good luck.:)
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  13. MoodyBlues

    MoodyBlues - Crazy peacock person -

    Update, please! :)

    Wow. What a transformation.

    BTW, I love the cat box and scratching post shots. They make me feel right at home. :D (I have that same scratching post--my cats love it!)
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  14. huh

    huh Well-Known Member

    i second moody's request
  15. MoodyBlues

    MoodyBlues - Crazy peacock person -

    Unstickying for the time being...
  16. NightAngel79

    NightAngel79 Bounty Hunter Administrator Moderator

    This is all I know how to do, post in Internet forums. This place is my home and You guys are my family

    Gary stopped breathing, paramedics showed up and breathed for him. They got his heart beating after 40 minutes. They are not optimistic, it's been an hour since he suddenly said he didn't feel good and stopped breathing

    We are at er

    Please pray, thoughts... Anything....

    this is about Gary
  17. Gmash

    Gmash Well-Known Member

    I am so sorry...My thoughts are definitely with you and Gary and the rest of your family. Hang in there. Hoping for the best..
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  18. pastafarian

    pastafarian P√Ętes avec votre foie Moderator

    I wish there was more I could say to alleviate your pain, but all I can think of is that Gary, you and your family are in my thoughts.
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  19. rootabaga

    rootabaga Well-Known Member

    I'm a noob to the forum, but not to suffering. I can't imagine what you are going through, though, much less what you have been through.

    But please know you will all be in my thoughts and prayers. And thank you for sharing this. It always matters.
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  20. Unforgiven

    Unforgiven -.. --- - / -.. .- ... .... Moderator

    Damn man, I'm so sorry. You folks are definitely in my prayers.:(
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  21. NightAngel79

    NightAngel79 Bounty Hunter Administrator Moderator

    Thanks everyone. On the fence about posting all this here, almost seems in bad taste. Sue me, lol (a little levity never hurts)

    Thank God for clipboard, I typed this once and pasted it hundred times... This is everything we know

    It took around an hour for them to revive him, which it way too long. He coded a second time after that. He's stable but completely unresponsive. Pupils fixed and dilated, which is also horrible news. It will be Wednesday before we need to make hard decisions. He may never wake up
  22. Clementine_3

    Clementine_3 Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry :(
    Sending thoughts and prayers.
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  23. Unforgiven

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  24. EarlyMon

    EarlyMon The PearlyMon Moderator

    Really sorry for everything there. :(
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  25. huh

    huh Well-Known Member

    My Thoughts are with you ..
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