OP if you didn't already know this then I'll let you in on something that most people who've been around here for a while have known for some time... internet sites like these basically serve as the complaints department for people with problems. If you don't have the temperment to deal with people belly aching about their devices, then this might not be a good place for you to hang out in.
You can take the greatest product known to man, go work for that company in their complaints department, and all day everyday you'll get to hear people complain about the worlds greatest product. It doesn't matter what it is or how great it may be, some people are going to have issues with it, and this is where people with Thunderbolts are going to come when they have issues with their device. You just have to accept that.
What would you say is a good estimate of how many T-Bolts have been sold so far... 20, 35, 50 thousand maybe? I honestly don't know, but I'm sure it's in the tens of thousands anyway. So let's just say there have been 20,000 sold to date, how many complaints have you seen on here... 20? If 20 people have come here in total disgust about the T-Bolt, then that represents less than 1% of Thunderbolt customers are unsatisfied with it. Even if 200 people jumped on here to trash it, then we'd be at 1%... still not too shabby if you ask me.
So for God sakes man, don't let it get you mad. It's not worth getting upset over other peoples problems. If you're having a good experience with your device then who cares what they think about it? If it truly gets to you like that then don't read the complaints, it's that simple. Let those who are here to help those having issues take care of them and just stick with the threads that deal with positive aspects of the phone.
Seriously, it's not worth getting mad about. It's just a phone. But like I said, this is where people come to complain. So you have to be prepared to hear that kind of stuff if you're going to frequent this forum. If you go down the list of all the Android devices here on Phandroid, you're going to hear the exact same things in those forums as well. It comes with the territory brochacho.
Edit : oh yeah and,
because ur acting like a female n don't no how to work a real smart phone
.... nah, that ain't a cool thing to say at all.