There's something bothering me, and I was wondering who to ask, so I thought about this forum and you guys.
Lately it has been weird between my girlfriend and I. We've been living together for about a year and everything was going great, until recently. She started seeing some of her older friends (which I don't like a lot and she knows it). She started being distant with her "recent" friends, and even with her parents. I think she's lying to me about something, although I can't tell for sure. She doesn't seem to look at me in the eyes as much as she used to.
The other day she went to a party (not a girls only party, some of them were going with their boyfriends) and she didn't even ask me. Well, I couldn't have made it, so asking would have been pointless but I don't think she knew about that. Almost as if she didn't want me to go. I know I said I didn't like these friends a lot, but I can get along just fine with them and one was actually my very close friend a few years ago, so I do like him. She also seems to be mad at me for something, even though I have no idea why. Everything was going great, I don't think I did something wrong.
My girlfriend and I met three years ago, started seeing each other two years ago and been living about one year together, as I previously said. I try to do my best to keep her happy. I know we don't do as many activities as we used to, but we still go out and do stuff together.
I don't know if I should be telling you this, but something REALLY messed up happened yesterday. We were sleeping in bed, as usual, when she got up and went into the living room. I don't know why I heard her, because I usually don't wake up until the morning when I fall asleep, even if you scream in my ear or put a strobe light in front of me (ok, maybe I'd wake up). I think she was talking to somebody on her cellphone, as I heard some kind of whispering. I was surprised, so I got up and wanted to see what was happening, but then I decided to do so quietly, just to see what she was doing. I heard the door (she opened and closed it quietly, she probably didn't want to wake me up), so I went downstair and hid a little, just to see if something would happen. I then proceeded to follow her into the garage. She got into her car, so I crouched besides mine. I was really nervous and I felt really stupid at the same time, but then I saw something: there was a tiny scratch on the paint of my car. So I'm asking you guys, do you think I should put some paint over it? Or leave it there? Will the scratch rust?
Thanks
Lately it has been weird between my girlfriend and I. We've been living together for about a year and everything was going great, until recently. She started seeing some of her older friends (which I don't like a lot and she knows it). She started being distant with her "recent" friends, and even with her parents. I think she's lying to me about something, although I can't tell for sure. She doesn't seem to look at me in the eyes as much as she used to.
The other day she went to a party (not a girls only party, some of them were going with their boyfriends) and she didn't even ask me. Well, I couldn't have made it, so asking would have been pointless but I don't think she knew about that. Almost as if she didn't want me to go. I know I said I didn't like these friends a lot, but I can get along just fine with them and one was actually my very close friend a few years ago, so I do like him. She also seems to be mad at me for something, even though I have no idea why. Everything was going great, I don't think I did something wrong.
My girlfriend and I met three years ago, started seeing each other two years ago and been living about one year together, as I previously said. I try to do my best to keep her happy. I know we don't do as many activities as we used to, but we still go out and do stuff together.
I don't know if I should be telling you this, but something REALLY messed up happened yesterday. We were sleeping in bed, as usual, when she got up and went into the living room. I don't know why I heard her, because I usually don't wake up until the morning when I fall asleep, even if you scream in my ear or put a strobe light in front of me (ok, maybe I'd wake up). I think she was talking to somebody on her cellphone, as I heard some kind of whispering. I was surprised, so I got up and wanted to see what was happening, but then I decided to do so quietly, just to see what she was doing. I heard the door (she opened and closed it quietly, she probably didn't want to wake me up), so I went downstair and hid a little, just to see if something would happen. I then proceeded to follow her into the garage. She got into her car, so I crouched besides mine. I was really nervous and I felt really stupid at the same time, but then I saw something: there was a tiny scratch on the paint of my car. So I'm asking you guys, do you think I should put some paint over it? Or leave it there? Will the scratch rust?
Thanks
