2 things I miss about my old iphone 3g: 1) Lack of bloatware, 2) ease of syncing media (note: I love the cloud syncing of all the other stuff).
When iphone 4 was about to come out and it got leaked, I was super stoked, since it was upgrade time for me. But, (thank gob) I couldn't pre-order due to their well covered apple store fiasco. Then, as people started to discover the antenna issue, and other issues, and the fact that ios4 is really nothing new, I started to look elsewhere.
The truth is that we can, and regularly do, vote with our wallets. The problem is that, like voting in a general election, it doesn't really seem to matter, and it usually has it's costs.
I wrote a letter to Steve Jobs, about how if they didn't fix the problems, I would not be buying a new iphone. I really doubt he even read it. But whatever. I got an Evo on Sprint shortly thereafter.
Now that was about the time that the Droid X was coming out on Verizon. And I wanted one. But I read about the encrypted bootloader and efuse and stuff, and despite the fact that I really don't know what that means, other than no custom roms, I knew I didn't want that. Plus, Verizon is ******ed expensive. I was going to go on my parents' family plan, and it would have been more than if I stayed with ATT at about $82. Now I'm on Sprint, with a better plan for about $67. And my Evo is arguably more "open." Well, at least it can be fully roooted (which I am not, but still).
Check out Engadget's review of the Fascinate:
Samsung Fascinate review -- Engadget
which is probably the OP's original source and basis for complaint.
As I see it Samsung and Verizon are really screwing things up. There are a couple of options here:
1) Buy the phone, and just don't use the crapware. Deal with the lack of gapps. And know that you got a pretty good phone. (A vote for the continuing of this type of thing)
2) Buy the phone and root it, and uninstall that garbage. (Despite rooting, Samsung and VZW still get your $)
3) There are plenty of other great phones on the market, and plenty of other carriers. (Vote against)
But the truth is that my Evo still has plenty of crapware that I wish wasn't there, like Nascar (really?), crappy NFL (now that VZW is exclusive with them), Sprint TV, etc.
It must be in Apple's contract with ATT that none of ATT's proprietary crapps get put on the iphone. And if you're dead set against that sort of thing, then yea, you should buy an iphone. Just make sure you hold it the way the Steve says you can hold it.
Edit:
I just ran across this interesting article about how carriers are using Android's openness to make it more closed. Seemed pertinent.
http://techcrunch.com/2010/09/09/android-open/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed:+Techcrunch+(TechCrunch)