Wow something we are actually going to agree on. But unfortunately, equality is not in the realms of the states, constitutionally, it is the responsibility of the federal government.
Being with the preamble of the constitutions we see why it is written which fall directly in the path of equality and same sex marriage.
constitution said:
We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union,
establish Justice, insure
domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the
general Welfare, and
secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.
The bolds point out the problem with states setting up laws the directly effect the tranquility, welfare, and liberty of the people of the united states.
The preamble alone directly states that the constitution was created, and the federal government, to create a justice system to insure tranquility, general welfare, and liberty for the people. If the state sets up a law that interferes with the welfare, liberty and tranquility of the people of the united states, the constitution was created to over ride that law creating peace between the states. The whole point of this document was for that purpose.
The bill of rights, is those over riding features of the constitution that was created to force the states to change the laws to make a better union. The bill of rights was created a different document, attached but separate from the constitution, so that it could be updated and changed to create a better system.
Amendment X said:
The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the states, are reserved to the states respectively, or to the people.
Amendment 10 is very clear that the constitution was created to make sure that states are limited by federal powers. These powers are directly related to tranquility, freedoms, liberties, and general welfare of the people.
After the original ten, and minus the 25th, 22nd, and 20th amendments directly relate to how states are allow to treat their citizens.
For example, the 14th amendment is written to forbid discrimination of any citizen in any given state, regardless of the laws of that state. LGBT are being discriminated in almost every state, maybe not to the extent in which the 15th amendment was written, but they are being discriminated against.
In fact, reading strictly from the constitution amendment 14, and I quote
No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
Marriage is a legal contract in the united states, not religious one. You can get married in the united states with out ever, in your whole life, stepping a foot into a church. The legal contract of marriage offer liberties, laws regarding property, privileges and immunities, and protections of laws, that can not be gained unless marriage is allowed.
Since denying a person the right to marriage, you are denying him/her the right to privileges, (ie hospital visits, filing joint taxes, ect). By denying liberty, you can not get married, is a direct limitation to a persons liberty, they are not free to do as they choose. Marriage dissolves the lines of property to an extent greater then all contracts, even prenuptials. In the united states, wifes and husbands can not be force to testify against each other, by denying LGBT the right to marry, you are deny thing the full protection of law. In every word of the 14th amendment you are violating the sprint, the ideals, and written word of the constitution and bill of rights by allowing states to deny same sex marriage.
Same sex marriage is not about religion. In fact, I would love it if religion would stay out of it. It is about a legal contract between two adult humans and the federal, state, and private companies. Liberty can not have a moral exception to it. You can not say, you can marry anyone you want, except if they are black, jewish, gay, blue eyed, or irsh. But besides all that you are allowed to marry who you want.
Same sex marriage is about a contract. A liberty to enter into a contract is being denied and is in violation of the 14th amendment of the constitution of the united states.
If you truly support the constitution of the united states, you have to fully support the right for everyone that is of sound mind and age to enter into a contract with anyone for any reason which is legal under federal law. You can not have a state deny that right to enter into a contract for purely religious reason, because that would violate the founding principles of the document that was created as the bed rock of our society, (and the 10th amendment).