IOWA, are you using the Sprint CL14 update or Zefie's with root capabilities?
No problem, glad you like it
Here's what I have as far as the looks
From the market:
-Beautiful Widgets (for the weather clock, choose "beautiful home" from the widget menu)
-BetterCut (for changing the names and icons of the apps on the home screens)
-Open Home Skin MyX5 (for the launcher)
-Open Home Full (go ahead and mess around in the options. Persist mode seems to work well to keep the home screen working well but it will cause other apps, especially games, to slow down. I'm using 5 screens but you can enable however many screen you like)
As for the background, use google image search for "flame-jpg"
I think that's about everything... OH, get screebl if you don't have it already.