I think maybe what daelite20 was saying was that Verizon made the decision to ship the phones from warehouses to stores so they had to be pretty confident that everything was working pretty well. I could be wrong but I can't see them shipping the phones to stores until they are confortable with everything hardware/software related, so basically a lot of people are assuming the phone is ready.
I do agree with you though - we shouldn't be getting excited without anything official from Verizon. Just hard not to get frustrated when Europe, Austrilia, Canada, South Africa, etc. have all either released the GN or have at least announced a specific date. And even though Verizon has said by the end of the year, with their track record I wouldn't be surprised if that's gets pushed to 2012 or even cancelled with one final "does not meet Verizon's high standards for quality" BS.
It would be very difficult and prohibitively expensive for Verizon to cancel the launch entirely, or drop support for the GN on their network - that
would surprise me. Pushing back the official release date to next year is far more likely, though still unexpected I think.
The thing is, 'Google' the company isn't associated with the Nexus in the same way 'Apple' the company is associated with the iPhone - not contractually, not in terms of manufacturing or marketing, and absolutely not in terms of consumer perception. That may be disappointing for us Android enthusiasts, and we might think that approach is ultimately a mistake, but it's certainly all part of the The Great Google Plan (tm).
The Nexus line is much closer to Google than any of the other Android phones, and whatever the reason, this particular launch is a pretty clear examples of how
not to introduce new hardware (or ICS), but I still don't think it's entirely accurate or fair to try and argue 'the GN launch should be more like how Apple launches a new iPhone.'
If I can step back for a moment - what I think is frustrating to many of us about Google's approach to Android is how non-confrontational it is. We want it to kick ass and take names. We want clear, precise marketing that shows how superior it is to iOS in many ways. I want my mom to know what Android is - and I want
Google to be the one to tell her. But that's clearly not the strategy at the moment...
That's sort of a whole other discussion, however.
-HD