I just purchased my Note, because after 4 iPhones, I just wanted something different. Since I have 30 days to keep or return the Note to Best Buy, I really want to give it a chance. I've realized that the iPhone is the far more intuitive device. My impression is that the open architecture of Android makes for some cheap looking apps. I also hate that I need so many work arounds vs. iPhone, and that doesn't even begin to discuss my frustration with syncing material to it. I LOVED iTunes and the simple coordination. I've played around with third party apps and software to sync music. I wish there was an Android iTunes to simply sync everything to. I have more to say as time goes on, but I'm brand new at this Android thing, but I still do want to give it a shot.
There are some cheap-feeling apps and some that are the complete opposite.
The reasons for Android not being intuitive include: (1) after owning 4 iPhones, iOS is intuitive to you and anything else will not be; (2) Android is far more customizable than iOS and gives you more options as far as things that you can do.
I suspect that the 'workarounds' you allude to are a result of trying to make Apple products (eg. iTunes music, video, etc.) work with a non-Apple product (Galaxy Note). If all of your music, videos, etc. were purchased from Amazon, for example, rather than iTunes then it would be a completely different story.
I gave up on iTunes after I realized that 3/4 of my library was DRM-protected and couldn't be played on anything other than Apple products unless I forked out the money to convert it all. If you're happy with staying with the Apple ecosystem then it works great. It's when you try to get out of it or try to mix-and-match that the trouble begins. It's easier to stay with Apple than to get into a different boat, and that's exactly the way the folks at Apple want it and designed it to be.
You can make Android work almost exactly like an iPhone, with a mass of icons and folders and fifteen steps required to turn wifi and bluetooth on and off, if you like, but it also gives you the option of making things work exactly (or closer to) how you would like them to work. The caveat, though, is it takes some (or a lot of) effort on your part. As an example, if I swipe down anywhere on my screen, I get access to toggles for wifi, bluetooth, syncing, etc. If I swipe up anywhere on my screen (except the right edge) it launches my email inbox. If I swipe up or down on the right edge it adjusts the volume. If I swipe left-right on the top edge it adjusts the brightness. All of those controls are just gesture-based and set up that way because I fancied it. I had the choice to do so. With iOS, that's not an option (unless you jailbreak).
Lots of people will give up on Android because they have no interest in spending the time to make it work for them. The way it comes out of the box on most phones, it doesn't really work well for anyone.
I'm glad you're giving yourself a good month to see if you can get it sorted.
If you really want to, you can make your Android phone far more functional and easy-to-use and the interface much more beautiful than that of the iPhone. If your music's trapped in iTunes there are ways around it, but I didn't have the time or interest. I was happy to just let my iPhone (and relationship with Apple) become a thing of the past.
If you need online storage there are several options including DropBox and Google Drive. If you need music, there's Google Music (if you live in the USA) as well as several online sites such as rdio/slacker/tune-in, etc. If you need suggestions for apps to do x, y or z, there are many people here who would be happy to help you out.
Part of the issue with Android, and a huge contributor to the steepness of the learning curve, is not knowing where to find stuff, or even if there is 'stuff' that can do what you want.
I'm sure you didn't figure out *everything* about your iPhone all by yourself (including apps to do specific tasks). Don't expect to be able to figure Android out all by yourself, either.