i agree completely... last time i accidentally voiced(typed) some comments on xdas users they were tastfully edited out by a mod
i always personally try quick help without ridicule,flaming or rudeness,and im sure the rest of the staff shares those same goals.
as for the lack of posting here,we unfortunately cant make the devs post their work in any one place,lol... but as users we can all help by starting a thread linking the rom,and sharing some thots of it,if weve used it.