It just sounds like he is not putting it in fastboot mode and only trying adb commands. That's just my thought.
,Boot phone to bootloader highlight fastboot hit power button then plug in usb it should then say fastboot usb once you have done that make sure you extracte
d boot.img from the ROM your gonna flash and put it in your platform tools folder(or wherever you have fastboot and adb.) Also make sure your recovery img is in that folder if you didn't download the disk image go ahead and do that now and put it in your tools folder and rename it recovery to make the command easier. Once you have that in your tools and phone in fastboot type fastboot flash recovery recovery img. Then type fasboot flash boot boot.img now type fastboot boot recovery.img make sure you command into recovery .in recovery wipe dalvic then go to mounts and format system cache and data . now flash the zip for the ROM your gonna use. Then reboot.I suggest just trying A stock deodex till you get this worked out.