Thanks for your thoughts,
@olbriar. Honestly, with this person, it's a little hard to peg her as one way or another. At times, she's very thoughtful, prompt, remembers important appointments I have, stuff like that, but at other times, she fails miserably on just the easiest, no-brainer tasks!
As for *me* feeling upset or hurt or whatever, no, that was really never an issue. It was her
reaction when I asked why she hadn't followed through that started this whole thing. That day, the "in about an hour" day, when she didn't come to my room I thought she must have gotten busy with something important, and it was like, oh well, no big deal, we can do it tomorrow. But tomorrow, when I asked "so what happened to the hour?" she got all bent out of shape, offended, insulted, you name it.
I was not expecting that at all! And by that time, I was thinking, shit, if ANYONE should be mad, it's me!!