Ok, well I don't believe I have a firewall on my computer, but I'll look at my security settings and make sure I disable it. I rooted my first Evo with Unrevoked and my 2nd one with Revolutionary without any trouble, so I think I am probably ok.
so now that I have the drivers installed (shows Android Phone --> Android Composite ADB Interface) I just run the burrito root option, enter the scripts to install FireFireFire and TWRP and I'm done? I need to read more, but those are fastboot commands right? The concept of fastboot scares me since so many people have had issues with windows being able to recognize the device in fastboot, and then they're unable to get out.