My 15 yr old daughter has an HTC hero, the agreement was that she could have internet on her phone for school projects and to chat with friends on face book. she was told that she was not to have any emails or other apps on the phone with a password unless I had the password. I have the security settings set to private on face book. the problem is, i have since found apps like ping chat and another app that I don't remember with a password on it. I know the one for ping chat, and she must think i an stupid she keeps telling me the messages are all the same in both place. HOW can i get around this password? it is a number code you have to punch in, I know she is lying to me because she says she can't remember it.