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Syncing the calendar of one phone to the other could be a wee bit challenging. The first way that comes to mind is to use the same GMail account on each computer (assuming, of course, that your wife also carries an Android phone). Sharing a GMail account, however, also shares email and contacts.
If, on the other hand, your wife doesn't carry an Android phone... well then my idea may not work!