I can't help with CWR or ROM manager, because I don't know the Droid like I know my D2G.... But to get into recovery, you have to hold both X AND the power button until you see the M logo. At that point, you can let go. Then you'll see a triangle with an exclamation point inside and a little green android. Press the search button on your keyboard, and you'll be in stock recovery. You can try doing the same thing but instead of pressing X, press both volume keys at the same time + the power button. I've read that this puts you into Clockwork Recovery but have never tried it.

 

In all actuality, I would suggest getting MyBackupRoot (MBR) from the market (it's free). It has two backup options, apps and data. I would backup all my apps, then go to backup data and backup call logs, bookmarks, sms, and mms. Then I would do a factory data reset

Code (Text):

1. menu -> settings -> privacy -> factory data reset

This will not unroot your droid, nor remove your custom rom. All it's going to do is make you re-install your apps, etc. and probably clean out whatever left over gunk that is messing up your ringtones and such.

When your phone reboots, you will be presented with the 'touch the android' screen. Once you have successfully signed back into your google account and it starts to sync, set your phone down and leave it alone until you see the "xxx applications restored" message in the notification bar. Do NOT pass GO, do NOT collect $200. Then you can use MBR to restore the data and any apps that didn't automatically restore. You will also have to manually reset your custom ringers and notifications, but it should work alot better now.

good luck

 

Sometimes the apps restore better while on WiFi. The problem is after a factory data reset, your saved WiFi locations get erased. I live in an extended network area so after a few moments, the phone makes me turn on WiFi and log in again. For others, sometimes it is better to bypass the android (touch the four corners clockwise starting upper left), then turn on WiFi, then sign into google.

But you should still be fine, but if not, there's the above secondary method.

good luck

 

Dont restore DATA for any APPS, just do the APPS themselves. I have foud that some data saved could be corrupted.

Also, I have been trying to get my phone to ignore calls, but it never does....I mean is it that bad of a thing that your GF goes straight to VM.