You need to make sure that in the phones connection settings "USB Debugging" is checked.

Also, when you plug it in and the "connection type" window opens on your phone, check "disk drive"

On mine, Windows just used the "mass storage device drivers" like it was a thumb or flash drive"

 

"Settings" then "Applications" then "Development"

EDIT: OK, you found it. I have to run out a while, hopefully someone else will jump in to help. If not, I'll be back later. Good Luck!

 

Ringtones can be pulled from any folder like MP3s, etc.

So if you want to centralize them, just create a folder called "Ringtones" and move whatever you want into it, then point "Ringdroid" to that folder.

 

Thank you thank you thank you,I now have music.