Can't stop sms message notifications

This problem only began after the android update last week.

I use go sms and successfully turned off its popup notification.

I have notification unchecked in the native message app on my skyrocket galaxy II. I noticed it says "display message notifications in status bar" It say nothing about popups...but I have it off anyway.

I use the iphone notifications app (mimics iphone banners). It works fine but I also get the popup with the android man... and I can't shut it off.

If I go into go sms and check the suppress other notifications... it works... so there is a process out there to suppress......

I just can't find the place that is generating the notifications.... any ideas?