I found the Beautiful Widgets skin.
http://www.xeudoxus.com/DarkEdge/downloads/DarkEdge-ESE81-Apps.zip
Download it, Extract it. Inside the folder is something called Beautiful Widgets SD or something of that sort. The skin is inside that folder. Simply just drag that folder into your SD card or you can do the whole function on your Droid using just ASTRO. Next thing I need to do is get more icons
Also after your done theming, you guys might want to zipalign the apks. It seems the theme installs over some of the programs, replacing them with some non zip-aligned apks.
And yes, the initial boot was OD long, but now its a lot better.