itunes DJ like setup

I am wanting to move from my laptop to my note for running music at parties. Itunes had a great program called itunes dj that was fun and easy to work. Basically anyone with an apple product could connect to your itunes library or specific playlist and choose songs to be played and songs could be voted up or down. They could also see upcoming songs and recently played songs as well. All in all a great program. Then apple got smart as usual and got rid of it.

I would like to set up my 10 as the music hub and have people choose what is up next with their smart phones, both apple and droid, maybe microsoft

I have found nothing that comes close. Is there anything out there?

Also, is there any way to use my GN2 as a remote to control music on my 10.1? I have only found some basic apps I dont like. I want a good interface.

Thanks