Root Looking for ROOT/ROM Help


I'm looking for some help. I have the Droid Incredible, which I rooted using Unrevoked3. I never updated to Gingerbread, so my firmware is still on Froyo 2.2. I was going to get a new phone, but I've decided to keep my DINC for at least another 6-9 months. I'm looking for advice on what to upgrade my firmware to (latest stable Gingerbread or Custom ROM?), and where I can get the best instructions (website or Forum) to do it.