Just received my HTC Desire Car Upgrade Kit CU S420 today, and i must say it looks like a sturdy piece of kit however i cant for the life of me figure out if im putting it in correctly. to correctly put the usb end into the phone i have to hold the bottom and tilt (push up) the rocker thing that the usb is place on, and hope i line it up right and am not damaging anything! the manual says shows just to slot / slide the phone like i do with my charging dock i have but it wont line up if done this way and i can see it breaking something on the phone or car charger. so how do you use it? also there seems to be a problem with the FRONT cig / utility socket on the honda civic's i.e it doesnt fit right, does anyone have a fix / work around for this? many thanks for helping a confused person!