I often listen to music while i am at work through my Droid incredible. I haven't figure out how to set up notifications so that they act like i want them to. If there is a call or text, I want it to briefly pause the music, notify me, and resume playing the music if it is a text or wait until I finish the call and then resume playing. However, when I am called, the phone rings externally so everybody but me hears it. If i change to the vbrate or silent profile, I never notice texts come in. How can I have audio notifications that only go througb my headphones if they are plugged in?