I need some serious help here. I have called HTC and they somewhat confirmed my suspicion of eavesdropping on my incredible. here are the facts that I have Personal information was shared by someone who couldn't have known it other than eavesdropping. 2 days after receiving a replacement phone, the calls started extremely high data usage in a short time. software does exist that can do this HTC rep said its possible to embed software on the device that is capable of doing this If you want to read the backstory, its below. It is long and contains some irrelvant info. please do not derail the thread. here is the scenario. Wife is away on military training. 2 days after she left, I got a replacement incredible due to the reboot issue. The next day my wife starts getting hangup calls from "unknown caller". She recieved 5-10 calls a day for 3-4 days, until finally the person calls and does not hang up. The person, a female, indicates to my wife that I am cheating on her back at home. now before anyone thinks im just here to cover up my tracks, please do not try and derail this thread. I already have the police involved and have contacted the Verizon fraud line. I am extremely freaked out and concerned about mine and my wifes saftey. My wife calls me and of course is furious, the person on the phone indicates by name who i am "seeing". I dont know anybody by this name and am very very confused as to why anyone would try and set me up like this. Ideas on who it was ranged from her friends who are not a fan of our marriage to possibly some guy she is deployed with who wants a shot with her and thinks he may derail our marriage. After a pretty big blow out between her and I (she doesn't believe me - yes trust issues and not relevant to this thread at all) she decides that we need a temp separation. Of course I am beyond words upset because someone is obviously setting me up. so the scary part.. after she tells me about the separation, the calls stop, supporting my idea of the 3rd party vested caller. we eventually work out the differences, she combs through months of phone logs and what not and finds no evidence , bla bla bla. so today, I am on the phone with her and we are having a conversation about random stuff. We talked about 3 unique things that happened during the phone call. Our kid did something i was telling her about, she wasnt feeling good, and something personal i wont discuss. We ended our call and went about our day. 45 min later She calls me, "someone is calling from "unkown" again and is hanging up". We discuss possible players in this and cant think of any. as i am on the phone with her, the unknown caller calls and she switches over. 5 min later she switches back to me and says "who did you talk to about our conversation". This time i am furious, in teh 45 min i was not talking to her, i can assure everyone that i was not on the phone with anyone. I ask her what the person said, the person had called to make sure she was okay, said "He just wanted me to call you, to tell you that he's worried you might be cheating on him". The caller also "proved" they were legit by saying i told them what my kid did, which matched what had happened while i was on the phone with her from earlier. Now... I know i didnt tell anyone about that, it would be impossible. of course she doesn't believe me, i mean this unknown person just told her things that were said privately less than an hour ago. After some discussion, and trying to connect what this person said to possible people other than us that might know, there were a few things, like the kid incident that nobody but her and I knew. So either she is lying.. or i had a 45 min black out where i called someone, ask them to call my wife, and told her some intimate stuff to prove her claim, or my phone is tapped. I googled around and found several applications capable of doing this, but i was not able to find them on my phone. wifes phone is an older flip phone so i ruled that out. Also this person had repeated stuff i had only said to my mother in a previous conversation the day before. I mean i guess its possible that my mother is involved, only through logic possibility. But if i thought that, i wouldn't be writing this. honestly, its not possible, my mother is 57 years old and drives a truck for a living and was driving through the rockies when i talked to her. so, seriously, the only conclusion that makes sense is some how, some one is listening to my phone calls and using that information for some kind of sick pleasure. when i say this person repeated things that were only said 1 time to 1 person, i really mean that. so the fact that they know it is very disturbing. is it possible to eavesdrop on an android device. is it possible to find the app? is it possible to trace where the data is going to. I forgot to mention that in the last 10 days, my data usage is over 1gb. the only thing i do on my phone is check email and browse google. I dont stream music or video. and hell for 4 days of those 10 days, I was out of town and out of a service area and the phone was off. so in 6 days, 1.2ish gb of data usage. I am really worried about this. I have called my bank and given my social and bank number over this phone. I have called my daycare provider and talked to them about my kids schedule. I called my credit card companies to discuss personal information. If this phone is bugged then my marriage is the least of my concerns. I am a logical guy, and i can assure you that over the lats 10 days or so i have looked at this every way i can, and the only scenario that fits is eavesdropping of some kind. who knows, my house could be bugged. i am NOT a tin-foil-hat kind of guy at all. and i know this all sounds a little ... unlikely, but im telling you, i cant think of anything else that makes sense. How the heck does some stranger know info that i know i only said to my wife 1 time? and then why would she call her back and tell her about it? sick joke?