Okay well its been a week on this backside thing, and now something has happened that's really pissed me off
my app drawer icon is gone...I can't find it, adw launcher says nothing about it, no one is answering me now so I'm done with it.
I like it but it is so sensitive if I stick the phone in my pocket who knows what I will do and by the time I realize it it's too late. So how do I get the
app drawer icon back and by the way when you press the menu button ADD is greyed out why?
It's not that were not answering you,your problem is kind of unique and takes time to research and find the solution that will not make you situation worse. Plus we all have lives to live outside this forum that require are time and energy(I got stuck working nights,and can't sleep in the day time,so I'm tired all the time and have no energy).
This is why I asked JerryScript to help out(hes the most knowledgeable member), but as you can imagine,he is a little busy and has a family to think about. Be patient,some things take time to sort out.
If your not happy with the BACKside ROM, Try something else,There are plenty of ROM's out there. One of them is bound to be just what your looking for. Go here
[Reference Guide] Optimus V Modding (READ THIS TO GET STARTED) - Android Forums and here
https://github.com/inferiorhumanorgans/android_device_lge_thunderc/wiki/Binary
The gaps that are required for Gingerbread ROM's can be found here
Latest Version/Google Apps - CyanogenMod Wiki
In the mean time I will continue to try to find a solution to your first problem, but you will need to finish giving
ALL the information required in JerryScripts post.
As far as your second problem, try downloading a fresh ROM and gapps(You could have gotten a corrupted download,it happens sometimes)
1.wipe cache partition.
2.wipe dalvik cache(advanced section)
3.wipe data/factory reset.Now that your rooted
YOU MUST NEVER USE THE FACTORY RESET IN THE PRIVACY MENU ON THE PHONE
4.format boot,system,data,and cache
5.go to install zip from sd card
6.go to select zip from sd card,chose the ROM first. It will go thru the install procedure. When done go back to step 6. and select the gapps.
When all this is done select reboot system now.
It will take 5-10min. for the initial reboot. You will be asked to sign in,skip this.
Now you can go to the market app and click on it and sign in to your google account(you must have your e-mail address and log in code).Reboot the phone twice then set up your apps. Once you get everything set up just the way you like it and all your apps are just where you want them,go back into your recovery and make a backup of that ROM.