Everyday I listen to people moan and complain about their wife or husband. They don't do this, or they do that and I don't like it ect...... I just don't get it. I'm twice married and I never once openly complained, bitched, moaned about my ex wife in public. My second marriage is amazing My wife works hard, is an amazing mother wife and life partner. We compliment each other very well. We never fight or bicker. We are open and honest with each other. We TALK about our differences in a very honest and mature way. I could never imagine raising my voice to her. I just don't get it. If your gonna complain about your spouse all the time, why even be married? Maybe I'm just lucky but I honestly believe that you have to be your spouse's biggest supporter, cheerleader, and you have to always always take your spouse's side on any given situation while in public. That doesn't mean you can't talk about it in private, but to publicly disagree with a loved ones point of view can do nothing but hurt them and make them feel foolish.