Support Texts and call notifications grouping/combining together

Both my text messages and calls from one person are grouping together in a single line on my call log. When I click on the name of a contact, it brings up previous calls, texts, etc. I didn't like this. So, I found where I could change it to Calls Only in the view menu. Well, after a few minutes, it just defaults back to both calls and texts. How do I get it to stick?

Also, I know this opposite of the norm, but I don't want my calls to group in my log. The note used to not do this, and all the sudden, my calls started grouping by contact. I'd rather them not do that. Is there a way to set it back to where each call is shown as a individual call?

Help is appreciated