1st of all, thanks for the quick response. Here is where I am at now..
"No Animations"--- changed to, but discouraged. i have really taken all the fun out of this phone and gotten back to very basics, boring.
<back> key? --- yep, knew that, thanks
How much RAM are you using?--- i doubt this is good but 154MB/161MB.
If you browse a lot, make sure to go to the browser app, hit Menu->More->Settings and clear Cache, History, Cookie Data and Form Data. ---question, do i leave the "accept cookies" and "remember form data" checked? i cleared all of them but don't know what status to leave them in.
Similarly, you may have to clear your call logs and SMS history logs from time to time if there seems to be a lot of data. ---just cleared all my texts unless there is a backup somewhere. i went into my messages and deleted all threads. i thought i had it set to do after a certain number anyway but i probably uninstalled that version of messaging.
shut down the phone completely and turn it back on after a few minutes just to reset everything to the minimal startup mode---i do this on the regular, maybe two or three times per day.
what is the consequence in wiping the phone clean to factory settings and starting from scratch? if it is just losing stupid apps and what-not, im already there. do you think it would help?
thanks again for your help!